Board of Directors

The Board of Directors consists of accomplished Family Mediators from across the Province of Ontario working together to promote family mediation and maintain the highest standards of accreditation.

Our Board is comprised of family mediators from diverse disciplines including law, social work, psychology and finance who represent every region of Ontario. Members are elected at the Annual General Meeting (AGM) for a three year term.

The Board develops and maintains standards for accreditation and continuing development in areas such as elder mediation and oversees the Executive Director and Director of Child Protection Mediation as they fulfill the objectives of the OAFM with a high degree of excellence.

Each Director is fully committed to ensuring that the OAFM remains the voice of family mediation in the Province of Ontario.

Meet the members of the Board


Vicky Visca


Vicky Visca has been working in the field of child welfare, separation and divorce and youth in conflict with the law for almost 40 years.  She has been a Family Mediator since 1983 and an Accredited Family Mediator with the Ontario Association of Family Mediation (OAFM) since 1997.  She has been a Child Protection Mediator since 2007 and she is an Open Adoption Mediation Specialist.

Vicky has been an OAFM Board Member since 2018, and she is currently the President of the Board. She currently chairs a number of OAFM Committees including the Child Protection Committee and the Child Inclusive Mediation Committee.

Vicky began her career as the Coordinator of the Belleville Family Court Clinic and was also the Executive Direction of the Durham Family Court Clinic.  Vicky’s private practice was established in 1997 with the emphasis on the provision of mediation, assessment, and counselling services.  In the past, Vicky was a clinical investigator with the Office of the Children’s Lawyer and she retired from the provision parenting capacity assessments after having completed them for over 30 years. Vicky’s current practice is solely in the provision of Family and Child Protection Mediation and training.

Vicky is a provincially approved instructor for Child Protection Mediation and she is also a Family Mediation Instructor.  She provides consultative and training services to other Family and Child Protection Mediators as well as in-service training to a multitude of child welfare and mental health agencies throughout the province in relation to Child Protection and Family Mediation.

Vicky has contracts with the Ministry of the Attorney General for the provision of On-Site and Off-Site Mediation, Information and Referral Coordination and Mandatory Information Programs for Kingston and the Quinte Region.


Kathy Dunne

Past President

Kathy Dunne founded Family Life Mediation to help families throughout the circle of life to manage conflict and find peaceful solutions to life’s challenges.  Kathy is an Accredited Family and Intergenerational Mediator with the Ontario Association for Family Mediation.  She has worked in Family Mediation for 13 years and has helped many families improve their cooperation and communication and assisted them to develop shared parenting plans for their children.  Prior to creating Family Life Mediation, Kathy managed Four Counties Family Court Mediation Service, a not-for-profit court connected family mediation agency, and she remains on the roster.

Kathy is certified as a trainer of the “It’s Not Right” program of Elder Abuse Ontario.  As a member of the Peterborough Elder Abuse Prevention Network, Kathy provides advocacy and education to give a voice to our fragile populations. Kathy is a speaker, educator, advocate and consultant and has served on many not-for-profit boards and committees, including the Special Education Advisory Committee and the Accessibility Advisory Committee of the Peterborough, Victoria, Northumberland and Clarington Catholic District School Board.  She was a district council member of The Easter Seal Society and a coordinator of The Easter Seals Telethon, and was a board member of Five Counties Children’s Centre Foundation, a children’s treatment centre in Peterborough.


Jim Doxtdator

Board Member

Jim Doxtdator is a Certified Family Mediator who provides services to his Six Nations community, and to surrounding areas of Brantford, Simcoe, Cayuga, Hamilton, St. Catharines, and Guelph. His areas of expertise include family mediation, on-reserve MRP mediation, restorative practice training, and conflict resolution.
Jim studied Civil Engineering at Mohawk College, graduating in 1993. He then worked for over 20 years in a variety of government agencies at the federal, provincial, and Aboriginal community levels, in project management positions. and political advice. Jim has been a family mediator since 2017, accredited by the Ontario Association of Family Mediators. Jim completed his training as a Family Mediator and Restorative Practices Facilitator with the Six Nations of the Grand River Community Justice Program. The Six Nations Justice Program is responsible for the administration of the Community Matrimonial Property Act, which deals with properties owned by members of the community who are in the process of separation or divorce.
Jim is also a facilitator / trainer for the Indigenous Dispute Resolution (IDR) process. IDR is a framework that incorporates Indigenous approaches to dispute resolution that uses traditional values ​​and practices to resolve family conflicts. This IDR process was developed by Dr Robert Antoine and Dr Richard Hill, who advised Jim on the goal of training child protection workers with Indigenous families in Ontario. Jim incorporates IDR into all of his practices.
A highlight of Jim's career has been serving Indigenous communities. Jim is Haudenosaunee, Bear Clan, Cayuga Nation, Six Nations of the Grand. He is one of the founding commissioners of Ogwadeni: deo (Caring for ours) Ogwadeni: deo is the child protection agency of the Six Nations of the Grand River Territory.
Community work is very important to Jim. He is currently working with the John Howard Society (JHS) of Hamilton and Burlington as a Restorative Practitioner and Co-Facilitator of Duty-Free Services for those involved in intimate partner violence (IPV), and who are seeking diversion programs. Jim also works for the Center for Conflict Prevention and Resolution (CCR & P), within the JHS Hamilton organization. Using restorative practices, he mediates conflicts in the workplace, in schools, and in the general community. The objective is to allow the responsible and the victim to communicate well in a safe environment, and to participate in the search for a resolution. Jim also does prevention work in schools,
In his spare time, Jim enjoys nature by cycling the trails in Hamilton and doing urban farming in his large vegetable garden. He is also a 2nd degree Reiki practitioner. He and his partner often participate in community farmer's markets promoting wellness through healthy eating and a healthy mind.

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Nicole Stewart Kamanga

Vice President

Nicole Stewart-Kamanga is a Family Lawyer and Accredited Family Mediator with the Ontario Association for Family Mediation.  She operates a negotiation/mediation-based private practice in Oakville. She holds an LL.M. in Alternative Dispute Resolution. Nicole is a panel lawyer with the Office of the Children’s Lawyer and sits on the Board of the Ontario Bar Association’s ADR Section. Before entering the practice of law, Nicole worked as a Children’s Advocate in a women’s shelter.  Recently Nicole accepted a one year contract position with a Member of Provincial Parliament.

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Christopher Deeble

Board Member

Christopher Deeble is a family law lawyer, accredited family mediator, and certified collaborative practitioner, who has been practising family law since 2009.  In court or out, Chris is comfortable finding family law solutions for you.

Chris was granted his accreditation in family mediation in 2017.  This accreditation lets Chris help those people who want to achieve their separation goals outside of court.

In addition, since 2016, Chris has been licensed by the High Conflict Institute in the New Ways for Families® program.  For people who are in this program (either voluntarily or because the court has ordered it), Chris can guide you as your lawyer.

Chris is also is a member of the The Virtual Family Law Project. The Virtual Family Law Project is a group comprised of Senior Family Law Lawyers in Ottawa who bring their expertise in arbitration, mediation and court processes to permit families to continue to work towards resolution of their family law issues outside of the public court system, using remote technology.

Before law, Chris had a career as a writer/editor who worked for a former Deputy Prime Minister and a former Governor General. In 2001, Chris received a commendation from the Privy Council Office for his management of communications during a national security crisis.

During law school, Chris contributed to the 2006 review of PIPEDA, entitled Compliance with Canadian Data Protection Laws.  In 2009, Chris completed his articles as a Privy Council Officer in the Cabinet Confidentiality branch of the Privy Council of Canada.


Jonathan Paynter


Jonathan Paynter graduated from McMaster University with a Bachelor of Arts (Honours) in 1997 and a Bachelor of Social Work (Summa Cum Laude) in 1999.  He worked in the Child Welfare and Youth Justice systems for a few years with children and their families.  He then returned to school to complete a Master of Education in Counselling Psychology from the University of Toronto (2006), while still working in the Children’s Mental Health and Education systems.  He worked in the Ontario College system for a few years as a counsellor at Fleming College and then transitioned into working in the Family Court system, completing custody and access assessments, parenting capacity assessments and youth court assessments. He has also worked in private practice since 2008 and, in September 2019, opened a full-time private practice, providing psychotherapy and counselling to adults, couples and children. He has specialties in the areas of Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy and couple’s counselling.  Jonathan has pursued many educational opportunities in addition to his university education, including certificates in Collaborative Family Law, Advanced Family Mediation, Family Arbitration, Domestic Violence Screening, Offender Relapse Prevention and Actuarial Assessment of Risk. He has done a lot of training on the subject of domestic violence and intimate partner violence and is a certified user of the Ontario Domestic Assault Risk Assessment (ODARA).  He is a regular attendee at conferences and workshops to continually update his skills.


Maryanne King

Board Member

Maryanne King is an accredited Family, Child Protection and Adoption Openness mediator with the Ontario Association of Family Mediators. She has a Master’s degree in Social Work and has been working in the fields of child welfare, adoption and alternative dispute resolution for twenty-five years. Maryanne holds an approval from the Ministry of Children, Community and Social Services as a Private Adoption Practitioner. She is a sought after and highly respected trainer on issues related to mediation and adoption around the province.

Maryanne specializes in the provision of Family and Child Protection Mediation.  She is an expert in working with vulnerable families and has passionately dedicated a large part of her practice to establishing openness in adoption arrangements for children.


Malcolm Bennett

Malcolm practiced family law in London and retired after 42 years. He is accredited as a Family Mediator and Intergenerational Mediator with OAFM.

Malcolm operates Bluewater Mediation and has practiced as a Mediator and Arbitrator in family and estate matters for over 20 years.

Anita Phillips

Anita Phillips

Board Member
Dan Ashbourne

Dr. Dan Ashbourne
Board Member

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